Heal, Attract Healthy Relationships and Never Compromise Again

There might be that desire in you, to be more magnetic, to feel and act more confident and to be the girl everyone wants to flock around and stay around?

The basis for everything is awareness and self-love. 

When you start to look within and heal yourself, you step by step get aware of your thoughts, beliefs (which is just a thought you think a lot), emotions, habits, needs, values and desires …

Once you’ve found that place, that person inside yourself, the being who you are, your true nature … and once you’ve embraced it and you are confident … 

You can’t be moved from a certain relationship or situationship.

And you're going to approach them completely differently.

Your new confidence and the understanding itself alone is going to exude a certain energy that people will respect and it is going to make you more desirable and sexy in people's eyes. 

And by knowing what you want, you will know what you don’t want.

And of course you will want to have only relationships - whether it be dating, marriage, in business, with friends - that feel good to you. Relationships that cater to your needs and bring you peace.

When you’re in touch with yourself by doing the inner work, you can tell the difference between how you feel when you’re yourself and how you feel when you compromise your needs and move away from your true self. 

When you know who you are you know when you’re not yourself.

You will feel “okay, this is not who I am right now!” and take another approach or leave the situation.

You can stop pleasing others (by compromising and undercutting yourself) and rather follow your bliss and do what feels good to you.

You will be able to recognize people’s unhealed wounds early on and you won’t have the need to entertain them. There is no need to rescue or fix them and no need to enter that situationship.

You will have the attitude “Heal first, I need a conscious relationship! Heal first, before you can enter my sphere!”

Attracting unhealed people is one thing, entertaining them is another thing and it's your choice. There might be a transition period as for a while there is still some of your old, unhealed energy in the field. And yes, it can be challenging to resist serving the old, familiar pattern. That's why it's so important to have a coach or therapist during the season of healing. Someone who lovingly holds up the mirror for you.

Or you just know that a certain relationship or friendship is not giving you what you need so you can’t sustain it in the long run as it will be exhausting and depletes you. And you are able to peacefully let it go.

Or you will feel it right away when you start off in an unbalanced state when dating. As a woman you want to be able to relax in your feminine energy and want him to come towards you. If he is flaky and not present you don’t want to overcompensate for what he doesn’t do by leaning forward and being in your masculine energy. So after maybe addressing it and speaking about it, you are able to let go right away in case nothing changes without losing yourself.

“Never be afraid to lose someone or something more than you’re afraid to lose yourself” 

When you don’t know who you are, you can lose yourself easily. You give, you do, compensate for the other person's lack, … you're not able to feel your natural inner boundaries. If you would be in contact with your soul and emotions, you would feel that something is out of balance and with enough self-love and confidence you would be able to trust your truth, to speak up and take care of your wellbeing.

On the other hand, when you know yourself, when you’ve healed and become aware about your Self … you won’t allow to get out of balance and to lose yourself.
By staying true to yourself, there is no need to be afraid of losing yourself.

Attract the relationship you want, feel confident and happy without compromising or losing yourself ever again.

If you feel ready and willing to heal yourself and start a coaching process, I feel honored to support you on your journey.

Book a free discovery session with me!

Love, Stephanie