If You Feel Afraid Of Losing Someone - The Cure Is Choosing Yourself Over Losing Yourself

You do like someone, you feel somehow familiar with that person, and your biggest fear is to lose them.

Maybe you’re aware that you're overgiving, you compromise too much, you feel anxious and nervous most of the time and actually pretty dependent on them. 

Maybe your family or friends told you that this person or situation is not right for you, yet you still find enough reason to make it work. 

You might feel guilty and try to find the fault in yourself … ‘If I still do this or change that in myself … then everything will be better...’

Deep inside, you feel that something is out of balance and you don’t know what to do.

I’ve been there and let me tell you, there is a way out. You might need some courage and it might get messy, yet, I assure you it will pay off. 

Often our fear of healing or facing the process of healing is greater than the fear of losing that person.
That’s why you rather keep up with the fear and emotions of losing the person than facing your healing process.

Once you’ve healed, you will feel so much better, clearer and you will ask yourself, why you didn’t get to a place of healing before.

Once you’ve healed yourselves and addressed the past and pains and dramas from the past, there is no need to stay in a dysfunctional, unhealthy or even toxic relationship.

And it's so much easier to get out of a bad feeling situationship right away when dating, in business or when being involved with new people.

As you’ve learnt your lessons and tasted what healthy feels like you won’t be able to tolerate dysfunctional dynamics anymore.

You know what it feels like to be healthy and what makes you happy, and you don’t want to downgrade to an environment at a lower level any longer.

You see so much clearer. You can’t tolerate unhealed people any longer. You just feel repelled by them.

Let me tell you, there is a time for everything, and the fact that you’re reading this here right now, means that the timing is just right and perfect to look deeper inside yourself.

If you feel ready and willing to heal yourself and start a coaching process, I feel honored to support you on your journey.

Book a free call with me!

Love, Stephanie