If You Feel There Is No Hope To Attract An Amazing Partner After A (Toxic) Relationship …

Did you find yourself after a break-up and a relationship in which you completely lost yourself?
Have you been trying since, maybe for several years, to get a new loving committed relationship but you only had short ones from a couple of weeks, maybe a couple of months?

And mostly, the men you feel attracted to, ghost you or disappear?

I’ve been there. I have an idea about how you feel and how frustrating it is.  
My parents got divorced when I was ten. 
I moved to my father and his new wife and four step siblings when I was twelve. 
The power struggle with my step mum began, my father didn’t take position and he and I grew apart. 
Also, lots of emotional abuse took place.
I developed an eating disorder. 
I moved to a foster mum and have had almost no contact since then with my dad. 

I transferred those wounds, patterns and beliefs into dating later on and only understood and transformed little by little what's going on and my role in it.

AND YOU CAN DO THAT TOO!

The powerful question again becomes, where do you come from, that you find yourself in situations like that?
What’s your share in that?

I was still wounded, in the past, unfinished business, resentment, a closed heart… and I attracted similar opposites (in order to understand and release and forgive).

Little by little - with coaching, therapy, and inner work (like reflecting on my behavior, meditation, yoga, reading, observing myself and my deep desire to heal…) I became more and more aware of what's going on and what might help and what I could do differently next time.

Learning to feel my emotions and triggers, and exploring them, shifted everything for me.
I didn’t have to project them towards the man anymore and could transform them inside myself.

And it is an adventurous and sometimes scary process to use what is in front of you as an opportunity to explore, grow and heal, but then again to know intuitively the tipping point when to let go as a man is not right for you. 

And, I so much started to appreciate how delightful it feels, being in my feminine energy that I felt repelled by any situationship that’s not catering my needs.
Out of an act of self-love towards myself.

I’ve learnt to release men early on when they make me feel too anxious, nervous, rushing, leaning forward.

I experienced the difference between relaxing into the process, feeling him coming towards me and being present with me and on the other hand, how it feels doing the work myself by being in my masculine energy, leaning forward and in controlling mode.

And I feel so utterly passionate to also help you to feel better and to get better dating results.

Book a free discovery session with me!

Love, Stephanie